Your Questions About Toddler Development Month By Month

Chris asks…
Concerns about toddler’s development.?
I’m a 1st time parent of a daughter who just turned 24 months old. I was layed off work and spent the last year at home with her. I’ve noticed several things that are begining to alarm me. I started introducing the alphabet (casually) and within 2 weeks she had it memorized by the time she was 18 months. Since then she has learned the primary colors, alphabet, numbers 1-20, shapes,animals in English, (some in Spanish and Sign language) I started word flash cards and she can say and identify over 300 words. So I started writing words on cards and showing them to her and she started reading them. I also purchased a puzzle of the United States and went over the names of each state, etc, and she can say and identify 1/2 the US states. I’ve only devoted 10 minutes each day introducing her to new things, and from my understanding kids pick up things pretty quickly. I’m just concerned because she is able to recall things so well if it’s possible she has a photographic memory?? And if I should address this concern with a Dr or just ignore it and chalk it up to kids just learning things quickly?
admin answers:
Well done, that’s pretty amazing.
I wouldn’t be worried about it – sounds like she’ll do really well when it comes time for preschool. Gifted kids show their talents early. Try exposing her to real world things away from the flashcards – take her out to the park and ask her the colors of stuff or count things along with her. Bringing the world into that context will further support the work you’ve been doing so far with her at home.

Paul asks…
Anyone’s baby got a tooth knocked out by accident?
My 15 month old slipped off a baby sized chair, hit a toddler table with rounded corners and still lost her front tooth. We are headed to the dentist, but was wondering for those parents who have a child who lost a milk tooth early, what happened at the dentist? Did the missing tooth cause any speech / eating prolems/ tooth development issues? I cried my eyes out, 1st time mom was NOT ready for this yet. My darling baby
missing her front tooth already. Any advice you have is appreciated. Thanks.
admin answers:
That happened to my friend’s son – I think at 18 months. She was like you – traumatized! – but he was totally fine. I think they check to make sure the tooth came out clean (that there isn’t any piece of the tooth left behind) and MAYBE do an xray to make sure there is no damage inside the gum (not sure if I am remembering that correctly…) but really it is not a big deal. My friends son had no problems eating, speaking, etc. He’s in 3rd grade now…he’s teeth are fine, he’s fine…
I can only imagine how stressed you are/were…but it really will be fine.
Oh – one other thing…we have a friend who is a dentist and our little boy hit his mouth once and it was bleeding like crazy – our friend told us mouths tend to bleed like CRAZY, so it always looks way worse than it really is and freaks the parents out, but meanwhile the child is really fine.
Hope that helps!
Good luck!

Thomas asks…
Should I worry about my toddler son’s development?
So my 2nd son is a preemie and has been developmentally behind by roughly 2-3 months in most things. Sat unassisted at 10 months. Crawled 3 days after his 1st birthday and cannot walk yet. He doesn’t talk at all yet though. Sometimes he will repeat “no no no” if you say it to him but other than that he will rarely say anything (I mean almost never). By what age should I start worrying if he still isn’t talking? My 1st son could could to 10 in English and Spanish and say a ton of other words by his 1st birthday. He is almost 16 months old.
admin answers:
My son didn’t talk much at all until after 18 mos (he was 7wks premature) and now you can’t stop him from talking!!! My nephew didn’t walk until 17 mos. And he was a full term baby!
Even if your son hadn’t been premature, i wouldnt worry. All kids develop differently and those books you read are just ‘averages’. It doesnt mean your child is behind. Please try not to compare him with other children. I know it is hard not to do that because i was guilty as charged and constantly worried about my son’s development and he is just fine!
I wouldnt worry at all. He sounds just fine!
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