Chris asks…

Concerns about toddler’s development.?

I’m a 1st time parent of a daughter who just turned 24 months old. I was layed off work and spent the last year at home with her. I’ve noticed several things that are begining to alarm me. I started introducing the alphabet (casually) and within 2 weeks she had it memorized by the time she was 18 months. Since then she has learned the primary colors, alphabet, numbers 1-20, shapes,animals in English, (some in Spanish and Sign language) I started word flash cards and she can say and identify over 300 words. So I started writing words on cards and showing them to her and she started reading them. I also purchased a puzzle of the United States and went over the names of each state, etc, and she can say and identify 1/2 the US states. I’ve only devoted 10 minutes each day introducing her to new things, and from my understanding kids pick up things pretty quickly. I’m just concerned because she is able to recall things so well if it’s possible she has a photographic memory?? And if I should address this concern with a Dr or just ignore it and chalk it up to kids just learning things quickly?

admin answers:

Well done, that’s pretty amazing.

I wouldn’t be worried about it – sounds like she’ll do really well when it comes time for preschool. Gifted kids show their talents early. Try exposing her to real world things away from the flashcards – take her out to the park and ask her the colors of stuff or count things along with her. Bringing the world into that context will further support the work you’ve been doing so far with her at home. :)

Paul asks…

Anyone’s baby got a tooth knocked out by accident?

My 15 month old slipped off a baby sized chair, hit a toddler table with rounded corners and still lost her front tooth. We are headed to the dentist, but was wondering for those parents who have a child who lost a milk tooth early, what happened at the dentist? Did the missing tooth cause any speech / eating prolems/ tooth development issues? I cried my eyes out, 1st time mom was NOT ready for this yet. My darling baby :( missing her front tooth already. Any advice you have is appreciated. Thanks.

admin answers:

That happened to my friend’s son – I think at 18 months. She was like you – traumatized! – but he was totally fine. I think they check to make sure the tooth came out clean (that there isn’t any piece of the tooth left behind) and MAYBE do an xray to make sure there is no damage inside the gum (not sure if I am remembering that correctly…) but really it is not a big deal. My friends son had no problems eating, speaking, etc. He’s in 3rd grade now…he’s teeth are fine, he’s fine…

I can only imagine how stressed you are/were…but it really will be fine.

Oh – one other thing…we have a friend who is a dentist and our little boy hit his mouth once and it was bleeding like crazy – our friend told us mouths tend to bleed like CRAZY, so it always looks way worse than it really is and freaks the parents out, but meanwhile the child is really fine.

Hope that helps!

Good luck!

Thomas asks…

Should I worry about my toddler son’s development?

So my 2nd son is a preemie and has been developmentally behind by roughly 2-3 months in most things. Sat unassisted at 10 months. Crawled 3 days after his 1st birthday and cannot walk yet. He doesn’t talk at all yet though. Sometimes he will repeat “no no no” if you say it to him but other than that he will rarely say anything (I mean almost never). By what age should I start worrying if he still isn’t talking? My 1st son could could to 10 in English and Spanish and say a ton of other words by his 1st birthday. He is almost 16 months old.

admin answers:

My son didn’t talk much at all until after 18 mos (he was 7wks premature) and now you can’t stop him from talking!!! My nephew didn’t walk until 17 mos. And he was a full term baby!
Even if your son hadn’t been premature, i wouldnt worry. All kids develop differently and those books you read are just ‘averages’. It doesnt mean your child is behind. Please try not to compare him with other children. I know it is hard not to do that because i was guilty as charged and constantly worried about my son’s development and he is just fine!
I wouldnt worry at all. He sounds just fine!

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    Ruth asks…

    Any good interactive activities for a toddler?

    Any fun activities and games?

    My 22 month old girl is bored with matching puzzles, she literally can close her eyes and match all the puzzles in a min. I want to keep challenging her. She’s pretty good with blocks and matching shapes. Are there any other good games or activities that can challenge her? Suggestions?

    Thanks!! =)

    admin answers:

    Scavenger Hunts – We have a list of things (one or indoor and outdoor) and he searches for the things then puts everything back where he found it which helps with memory.

    ABCs- My son loves to match magnetic letters to his wooden letter blocks

    I spy – I spy something blue and he finds it

    Group shapes together – cut out small shapes with construction paper and match to large shape cut outs

    Robert asks…

    Activities for toddler with Down Syndrome?

    I am going to be watching my friends daughter this summer and she is a 3 year old with Down’s Syndrome. I’m just wondering if there are any stimulating or fun crafts/activities for a child at that age. Thanks!

    admin answers:

    I’m a nanny for a little boy(just turned 5) with DS. There are a ton of things that will be fun for her that will strengthen her upper body (chances are she is very weak in that area). Get a big, huge ball (exercise ball), have her hold your fingers and jump! She will love it, it strengthens her upper body, etc. Make sure she is the one jumping herself, not you.
    Crawling, it seems immature for her age but its excellent for that upper body again. Turn it into a crawling game, she chases you and you chase her. Have a “fun” reward for when she gets you or you her, like a snuggle with tickling.
    Wheel barrow, hold her legs and have her walk with her hands. Again, good for that upper body strength. Turn it into a game with a fun reward.
    Catch, awesome with coordination that she likely lacks because of the movement, etc. That it takes to catch and throw for children with DS. Make it fun by getting different balls and letting her choose which one to use, etc. Soccer is really good for this too.
    Running, its great for her coordination too. Have races to make this fun.
    I can’t think of anything else off hand right now but if you want to e-mail me I can send you my list of these things. You’ll find that she is going to be at a younger developmental age so you might keep this in mind when planning activitys but don’t put it past her with her knowledge of things, etc. The little boy I take care of knows far more then we think he does. He’ll do things and we are blown away because he’d be keeping his ability to do that from us.
    Ask her mom about other activitys that you could work with her on, I bet she is in a lot of physical therapy and you can easily coordinate that into your play.
    Also, you need to find out if her mom is getting respite money for her, this could be used to pay you for taking care of her. Depending what state you live in (if they have it or not) they offer it free to the parent of a child with DS. The parents can’t get it but anyone else that helps take care of that child can. Its so simple to get the “license” for it too and it pays great ($11.30 an hr for respite and $13.00 an hr for hab-both of which she is eligible for if the state you live in offers it). E-mail me and I can give you a phone number of how to get it. Thats how I am paid for the little boy I watch.

    Enjoy her!! Children with DS are incredible, extremly sweet and easy going. I watch this little boys younger sisters with him (2yrs and 3yrs) Somedays I honestly look at the three of them, sigh a breath of relief and laugh because he is the easiest of the three and you would think he wouldn’t be with being so much more physically demanding. Enjoy and have fun!

    (Study sign language, chances are she isn’t very verbal and SL is her main lane of communication)

    Steven asks…

    Toddler activities at 12 months old?

    I have a 12 months old daughter who is my first and i am wondering what are appropriate activities for her, what should she be learning now? When is it appropriate for colors, shapes,etc..? How about the meal? What should i be doing with her at this age?

    admin answers:

    The best things you can do for your daughter are to interact with her often throughout the day. Snuggle her, play with her, talk to her, read to her, etc. When you talk often, you give her the words for the things and actions in her everyday life. In that speech, you can incorporate colors, shapes, etc.

    Some examples…
    When you’re getting dressed in the morning, you can say things like, “Here’s your red shirt!” or “Come here and sit down, and I’ll put on your pink socks.”

    While taking a bath, you can name her body parts as you wash them — hair, arms, hands, tummy, toes, etc. If you’re already doing that, you could try asking her where some of her body parts are, and see if she knows. (Toddlers particularly love, “Where’s your belly?”)

    Play with blocks together, and you can talk about shapes, colors, and numbers.

    Count items as you give them to her. “Here you go — 1, 2, 3 Cheerios.”

    Obviously, she’s not going to repeat all these things back to you right away, but you’re setting the foundation. Some kids seem to be learning nothing at all, and then one day, they instantly know all their colors. It’s like something clicks.

    As for meals, she should be eating pretty much what the family eats at this point. Talk to your doctor if you have a history of allergies in your family, and continue to keep an eye out for choking hazards (grapes, hot dogs, nuts, etc.), but almost everything else is fair game. Just give her small pieces at first, and let her feed herself as much as possible. Food should be fun!

    One year is a really fun and cute age with lots of new challenges as they really start to explore their world. Have fun, and take lots of pictures! This time passes so quickly…

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      Helen asks…

      What is the best and safest appetite stimulant for a severely underweight toddler?

      My three-year old daughter has always been underweight since birth and has been taking neosure and pediasure ever since. Now her endocrinolologist says if she doesn’t gain enough weight and height by december she will be given weekly growth hormone injections for 6 to 8 months. Her bone development is also 11months delayed. What are my other options aside from painful and costly weekly growth hormone injections?

      admin answers:

      Give this site a look-see. I know anything would be better than subjecting your baby to painful injections.

      Http://forums2.gardenweb.com/forums/load/herbal/msg1015053622858.html

      I hope this helps and if you want some more sites to browse then just type in appetite stimulants into your yahoo search engine and a few more will come up.
      Hope your little girl is back on her feet in no time.
      Have a great day/night!!!
      Xx K

      Mandy asks…

      16 month old showing risk of Sensory Integration?

      My son just turned 16 months today. He was evaluated this past tuesday by a speech therapist and an occupational therapist. I called because the doctor was concerned that he was not speaking the “mandatory” 4 words by this age. He jargons a lot and is very vocal. Just doesn’t say any words. When I filled out the paperwork before the evaluation I listed that he was a picky eater. I assumed that most toddlers/children are picky eaters. It was only a concern of mine because he wouldn’t eat many vegetables. This is why an OT came to my house with the ST. After the evaluation the ST stated that they are not concerned with his speech at this time. The OT mentioned that my son showed some risk signs for a sensory integration disorder. I had never heard of it until Tuesday. The reasons they listed were, picky eating (won’t eat at least 10 proteins and won’t eat any vegetables), movement (clumsy), listening (doesn’t listen or purposely ignores when focused on something else) and sleeping. Out of those four sleeping is and has always been my biggest concern. He will not sleep a full night without waking up at least once when he sleeps alone. For the past month he has been sleeping in bed with us because if he does wake up he puts himself right back to sleep. I would love for him to sleep in his room by himself a full night. I am not sure about the movement and clumsiness. My son didn’t start walking until 14 1/2 months. So he has not been walking for very long. When he’s tired he is more clumsy then first thing in the morning or right after a nap.
      Another issue that I wasn’t aware was an issue until tuesday is that he doesn’t like his hands washed or his face washed as well as his hair. Again, with the experience I have with children… I assumed that this was normal behavior.
      I know nothing about sensory integration or even what to expect. I feel a bit overwhelmed even though this isn’t an actual diagnosis just an at risk claim. It’s very worrisome. Does anyone have any idea about these types of disorders. I have read that it can go hand in hand with Autism but doesn’t mean the child will have autism if they have SID. I always felt that he was fine. He is his own person.

      I am just looking for any information on this topic from a toddler perspective. And any reading materials that I should pick up that could help us if this is hindering his development.

      Thanks.

      admin answers:

      It can be very hard to draw the line between normal and abnormal. Everyone has a few sensory issues – foods that can’t stand, sounds that drive them crazy. SID is the extreme version of normal sensitivities. You’re correct that children tend to be picky eaters, or at least pickier than adults. I know many children (and quite a few adults, for that matter) who do not like washing their hands, face, or hair. These characteristics only become symptoms when they’re severe enough to interfere with someone’s life.

      There is disappointingly little research on sensory integration or processing. But there are a few books out there. The Out-of-Sync Child is informative, and The Out-of-Sync Child Has Fun offers activities for kids with SID. Both books are by Carol Stock Kranowitz.

      Linda asks…

      Late talking toddler-almost 19 months and still not talking much!?

      I need some reassurance ONCE again that my toddler WILL talk!!! She doesn’t say much of anything–in fact is very quiet. We try to get her to repeat what we say and she will attempt at times, but most of the time just look at us and smile. She is SO good with receptive skills, but just doesn’t vocalize much and still just points and grunts most times. She has been checked out by First Steps (an early intervention program here in Indiana) and she doesn’t qualify for services, as she is at/above normal development in all other areas and they don’t feel she has any problems. She has had her hearing checked and is on her second set of tubes now. Could this be one of the big reasons she isn’t talking…ear infections since her EARLY months? Thanks…just need some positive input. Not trying to hurry her, but at the same time, I want her to say something! haa
      I guess I’m more wanting to hear from other Moms who has had a child who was late talking and DID eventually talk and Moms of kids who had chronic ear infections. Thanks!

      admin answers:

      My son was a late talker. I think he had a 5-word vocabulary at 19 months. It grew to about 30 words by his 2-year check up. Then, something happened to him developmentally at 26 months, and his verbal skills just Exploded!!! He talked non-stop, sang songs, asked questions. It’s like the world of verbal communication opened up very suddenly. Alas, now, at 4-years-old, he is never (ever, ever) quiet unless he’s completely asleep. You sound like a caring, involved, observant Mom who is on top of the situation and is doing everything right. Maybe just give this a little more time.

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        Richard asks…

        Toddler Development PT2 :) ?

        Okay i read alot of the answers everyone has given me and there very good and thanks for the help. I meant when we watch TV we watch Diego, Noggin, Mommy and me… I get into it more than he does i feel. I know all the words songs, we play games with it, dance, i teach him animals, shapes, etc… but its like he doesn’t pay 100% attn or understand what i mean… hes more into the “play” part of it. We have many toys… animals, flash cards, but hes more interested in stepping on them and being a boy and climbing you know… Do you think it’s just because he’s a boy? LOL. Everything I do for him I say and show him, point out things in the car, play blues clues in the grocery store (people actually think im weird cause i sit there and ask him what kind of waffles should we get and let him pick) It’s just so weird how her daughter (and she works) Is doing so much and i feel as if she’s rubbing it in my face alot. Do you think thats the reason I feel this way?

        admin answers:

        Yeah my daughter seemed to be more interested in learning things than my son did. But he is in pre-school now and his teacher made a comment to me that “He knows everything that we are learning in class. He is doing very well.” I was kind of surprised. So maybe he is learning the stuff but not letting you know. Boy are active then girls just give him time. Don’t force to learn stuff cuz he might hate going to school when the time comes.

        Good Luck!

        John asks…

        I am worried about my toddler development?

        My toddler will 18 months on 25th May,he understands much of the things what i talk to him but he doesn’t talk,just,mum,dad and sometimes one owrd more,like give.When i gave him a book he pretends like he is reading, he likes reading him books.But what i am worried also is that sometimes he pretend like isn’t hearing us.sometimes hears us very well sometimes no,pretends like playing and no attention is this normal is that we soil him as his the first one.also when he was smaller like child ran after them,but now no,when he sees children become timid.Also when sees his grandparend,uncle, he doesn’t delight like other children,also when his father works all the day when he comes home he doesn’t delight about his father,just hwen he sees me delight for nobody else.I asked family doctor about talking and socialzition with other children he said that is normal,sone children don’t speak till 3 years old,he told the he is seeing that my boy is understanding.My boy like ball too much,but doesn’t like toys too much.
        is this normal for some children.I am so worries that something is wrong.
        P.s my son knows to imitate,also some animal etc.

        admin answers:

        My daughter was exactly the same. At 11 months old she could say 5 words, but didn’t add to her vocabulary, so at 18 months she was saying the same 5 words.

        However literally a month later she started saying around 20 extra words a week, and by the age of two she had easily caught up to her chattier friends. She’s now 2 yrs 7 months and can speak in sentences, which a year ago I would not believe she would do.

        Just keep talking to him, pointing out animals, cars, trees etc as you are doing. He is remembering it, and give it a month or two it will start tumbling out of his mouth, along with words you don’t remember teaching him!

        I put it down to her learning other stuff – she could do jigsaws and puzzles for a 3 year old when she was still 1 and has extremely good co-ordination. They all catch up to each other in the end.

        Carol asks…

        What Should I Do About a Toddler Who Can’t Be in a Room Alone?

        My three year-old sister gets plenty of attention on a daily basis and is often congratulated when completing certain tasks. However ever since she was a baby, she can’t stand to be in a room alone and has to know where everyone in the house is located at all times and will constantly whine or call out a member of the family to make their whereabouts known. This makes it extremely frustrating to finish house chores such as dishes. Even still, she feels she MUST play in the kitchen by my feet and will try to bring her toys into the kitchen as well. My mom has resulted to turning on the television to hold her attention which I feel has consequences later on in my sister’s development. I am at my wits end! I don’t want her to grow up to be a needy adult. Are there any suggestions? Thank you for your mature answers.

        admin answers:

        She is 3 and will probably outgrow it. My brother had the same problem so we used to tell him to take the dog with him if he wanted to go up to his room or to a different room from the rest of us. It worked, he quit yelling for us to take him to other rooms and is more indepentant now. Even though he’s 12, he still takes the dog with him on occasion, but I think that its more of a habit now than an necessity. I understand how annoying it can be to have younger siblings under you feet all the time, I have 4 siblings who are quite a bit younger than I am. I’m 27, and they are now 14, 12, and 8 yr old twins. When I was at home they were always under my feet when I was doing chores or trying to get my homework done, but it will get better. And maybe spend a little more time with her on a one on one basis, I bet she will love that. Little sisters really look up to their big sisters, she may just want to be close to you. Good Luck!

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          David asks…

          development of an almost 23 month old toddler boy?

          what is average around this age?
          he does these things

          knows all his body parts ( can name most of them)
          know probably almot 200 words, sometmes speak in 3 word sentences
          knows the name of a couple colors but cant recogonize them
          can’t count or do ABC’s yet
          understands im pregnant and loves to kiss my belly and lets me know theres a baby in there!
          can name a lot of names of people, even me by my first name

          admin answers:

          He sounds perfect!

          Michael asks…

          7 month old development milestone?

          my just turned 7 month lo has been rolling front to back by 3 months , back to front by 5 months.he has a very god head control and sits in tripod position very frequently , but for a minute or so.He is sitting in tripod(kinna bends forward or sidewise) since he turned 6 months and has been trying to stand on his legs(legs pulled sraight, hands straight but toes and fingers touching the floor and balanceign with head down touch the carpet or sheet/blanket on the floor.he has been doing that almost the same time he started sitting.so both started around months.But in past few month neither he is sitting straight with legs and waist properly positioned , nor does he stand.he has been in crawling position and moving back and forth very very rapidly since his 5th month and after trying that for 1.5 month he stopped that recently and tries to pull his body to stand.Now my concern is he was in stagnant crawling position, but did crawl or doesn’t attempt to crawl now.He keeps moving on his chest and hands or by rolling.Now for a month of constant trying he is not sitting or standing either.He turned 7 months yesterday.Is that all normal ?
          I make sure he gets plenty of floor play. He has been blabbing for past 2 months increasingly like bua bua baa baa and lot more than gee gee , but he doesn’t do those blabbing constantly all day long.is that normal too?
          lastly when I call his name, he sometime looks but sometime doesn’t care.his dad call him a different name.he responds most of times, sometimes he keeps looking at me as if he didn’t hear him calling.though he is generally very very alert about any sound or noise.
          I guess when he looks when called, it is just the sound that catches his attendtion.probably he doesn’t understand his name yet? is that normal ?
          This is my first baby and I have never seen a baby or toddler so closely.so everything freaks me out.when i watch videos on youtube or read some answers in yahoo, looks like most of the people say their babies can walk or atleast sit to play comfortably by 7 months .or some says their babies uttered the first word by 8th month.
          is my lo on track or he is behind? his doc said everything looks okay during his 6 month visit.
          thanks and please share your experience.

          admin answers:

          Dont worry I’m sure he’s just fine:) He is just learning to sit up, so when he sits in the “tripod” position he probably falls to the side or something because he is learing how to balance:) my baby did the same thing around 7 months!! Just put some pillows behind him when he is sitting so that way he doesn’t hit his head on the floor. He will learn that balance trick soon! It happens out of the blue! I think that all babies develop their motor skills differently, like your baby is able to get on all fours into the crawling position….my 9 month old daughter hasn’t mastered that yet! But she is good at sitting up and balancing now:) So when you hold him up under his armpits he can’t stand? Or are you expecting him to pull up on his own? Don’t expect that just yet:) just practice with him by letting him stand up in your lap or on the floor while you hold him:) It’s normal for them not to constantly babble all day! Who feels like talking every second of everyday? My baby goes through her days too……some days I can’t shut her up:) Others it hurts my feelings cuz she will just look at me like I’m silly if I try to get her to talk:) lol my daughter doesn’t always answer to her name either!! They are ignoring us!!! Can you belive that?? I bet you if you try to call his name and he doesnt look at you……..try making a funny noise and see if that gets his attention!! I bet you he is just ignoring you!! Lol then when you make that funny noise he will look at you like “what the heck is that?” lol when his Daddy calls his name and he is looking at you he is probably concentrating on you so he ignores Daddy:) I think you baby is fine and healthy and happy:) He just has his own little personality already!! And if your Dr said everything is ok……then it’s all ok:)

          Linda asks…

          Should I convert my 19 month old to a toddler bed?

          Ill start by mentioning she is behind in development, not yet talking started walking at 16 months, but wouldn’t understand if I said “This is ayour new big girl bed.” Judgingby my other kids development in the past Id say she’s at a 12-13 month level. She isn’t climbing out of the crib, well she tries but nothing more than a leg.

          BUT, she is constantly getting her arms & legs stuck in the bars while she sleeps, turns and hurts herself. She wakes up crying 2-3 times a night because of this.We’ve tried tying bumpers inside it but still she manages to wedge her arm or leg in it. And she’s chubby so once they’re in, they’re in lol.

          Should we attempt to switch her over? If so what are some suggestions for her if shewouldn’t understand “his is your new bed.” IF not, what can we do to prevent injuries?

          Ps- Nothing about her development, autism runs in the family and we are looking into it. She is starting daycare & speech theropy once she’s 24 months. :D

          Thanks
          I can untangle her many times but she’s still getting stuck. It’s not fair to her to be hurt, or either of us to be up and down so many times a night. This has been ongoing for weeks, she is not stopping….

          admin answers:

          I’d say definitely get the toddler bed. My son was also developmentally delayed at your daughter’s age. He was on the autism spectrum, but has improved drastically with intervention- By 20 months I bought him a toddler bed for a lot of the same reasons, and while he didn’t understand the concept, he responded GREAT to it once it was together and we actually showed him. I was also told by Early Intervention workers that introducing kids who are delayed to new things earlier can actually help them grow and progress to age-level activities. She may get out of bed at first, but eventually she’ll get used to it and you’ll both get more sleep. With what you’re dealing with now, you don’t have much to lose. Good luck!

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            Thomas asks…

            Toddler temper tantrums!?

            Okay I have a 2 1/2 year old daughter. She was always so well behaved when we went out or when we were at home. She has all of a sudden started having this total melt downs. I know alot of you will say it is because she is 2. But there must be something I can do. I tell her no she can’t have a snack while I am making supper cause supper is almost ready and she just starts crying and screams and won’t calm down. It also happens when I tell her we need to change her bum or well anything really right now. I really want to help her threw this stage with as little tears as possible but I also don’t want her to think she can always have her way cause she cries or throws a fit. Please help.

            admin answers:

            2 is a hard age! To help her, teach her words for her feelings when she’s calm, that way she can use them instead of just screaming in frustration. Also, two year old have little tummies, so don’t make her wait too long between meals. My kids ask for snacks alllll day long, but I can tell when they are actually hungry. You can give her a warning, such as, make one more block tower and then it’s time to change your diaper. That way she knows it’s coming and doesn’t just have to stop what she’s doing. You are right not to give in, that would definitely show her that she can get her way just by melting down.

            While she’s screaming, it’s best to just ignore her, unless she’s harming herself or someone else. I know it’s hard to do, but you have to demonstrate that tantrums do not get rewarded by attention. If her room is child-proofed, try setting her in there. Good luck! Hope this helps.

            Laura asks…

            Is 6 months too soon to start throwing temper tantrums?

            Recently my 6 month old son seems to be throwing temper tantrums (throwning himself down, kicking, flipping around, screaming, etc) everytime he doesn’t get his way, I am not talking the necessities, I understand him crying if he’s hungry or tired, or needs a diaper change, stuff like that. But he will throw them if his brother takes something away, or I put his coat on him (he hates his caot and being stuck in his car seat), or if I lay him down to get stuff done, and he is held plenty, he’s not lacking any attention. They just seem very similar to toddler temper tantrums, but on a baby level, if that makes sence.

            admin answers:

            Yes, this is normal. Your son is at an age where he is learning to express when he is not happy with something, and also tryin to do something about it!
            Babies and children are not as capable of understanding reason, or even other peoples needs till a certain age. I would not assume for a minuet that your son is lacking attention, and this is why he is behaving this way. If anything its more likely to be the otherway round.
            It really is nothing to worry about, aslong as you deal with it properly. Perhaps your son is an early developer, or it is just in his nature.
            Its very difficult to decide on an apropriate way to deal with things at such a young age. He is not old enough to be punished, but believe me, he is old enough to work out the most likely reaction he will get from you or others, so maske sure it is the right one and not him getting his way

            Mary asks…

            Temper Tantrums!!!!!!!?????

            How do you deal with your toddlers temper tantrums? How do you correct them or what is the best way you have found to ‘curb’ this awful behavior!!!!!????
            I have tried everything I can think of and nothing seems to work! My son is 3 and he is very stubborn, srtong willed and independent! LOL! I have tried talking to him, explaining to him that this is unacceptable behavior..I have tried time outs and even taken away toys or treats while explaining why he doesn’t get to play with them…Nothing is working and I am ready to pull my hair out! He is also a SCREAMER, I might add! When he throws a tantrum he screams at the top of his lungs! It doesn’t matter where we are! And yes, he gets naps and plenty of excercise and also mental stimulation…we are currently learning to identify numbers and letters…lol…

            any helpful suggestions would be great – thanks in advance!

            admin answers:

            This worked with all three of my kids and they are all VERY STUBBORN….

            Say “This is not how we behave” and walk away. IGNORE him completely. No eye contact. He will scream louder, he will follow you and he may even try to climb up you. IGNORE IT. Just start cleaning or cooking or whatever. Just ignore him completely. When he does finally settle down (this may take a while…20+ minutes) then you say “This is the behavior I like” give him a hug and go play with him or read him a story. If he is doing this in public, pick him up, say “this is not how we behave” and leave where you are at. If at the store, leave the groceries behind. Just go home.

            My kids had one public temper tantrum each. After I started ignoring them, the tantrums ceased.

            Good luck!!

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