im scared to stay at my brothers house?

Ok so I’ve got the most amazing brother ever Jayme (28)
Im staying at his house next week because my parents are going away he lives in PEI i live in Ontario!
Anyways my problem is im 13 and i still wet the bed sometimes! I’ve gone to the doctor about it and she said i would grow out of it.
But im staying at my brothers house and i don’t want to wet the while im there!! I would tell his girlfriend but she’s in Japan teaching till October so she can’t really help me!
What am i supposed to do???
I definetly don’t want my mom or dad telling him!
and i definetly don’t want to wear diapers!
What can i do????
What happens if i do i wet the bed and it gets on the sheets?? What do i tell him? How do i tell him??
Thanks

im scared to stay at my brothers house?

Ok so I’ve got the most amazing brother ever Jayme (28)
Im staying at his house next week because my parents are going away he lives in PEI i live in Ontario!
Anyways my problem is im 13 and i still wet the bed sometimes! I’ve gone to the doctor about it and she said i would grow out of it.
But im staying at my brothers house and i don’t want to wet the while im there!! I would tell his girlfriend but she’s in Japan teaching till October so she can’t really help me!
What am i supposed to do???
I definetly don’t want my mom or dad telling him!
and i definetly don’t want to wear diapers!
What can i do????
Thanks

My girlfriend is making me where a diaper.please help?

I live with my girlfriend because im broke and i have no job.and last night was sleeping with my girlfriend in her room.and then i wet the bed.she was very angry.she slapped me and yelled at me saying “whats wrong with you are you a child.because only children wet the bed“she left and told me not to go anywhere.she came back with diapers and told me if i want to stay in her house i have to wear them 24/7.she said i cannot take them off or use the restroom.she made me clean her bed and wash the sheets.then i took them off to use the bathroom and she gave me a spanking.please help.it hurt.she said i cannot take them off.she said she’ll change me but only once a day.just an hour ago i pooped and peed on myself and she changed me.it was the most degrading momment of my life.please help me.how do i solve this problem.

toddler & nightmares?

My 18 month old has begun to wake up very upset and agitated once every few weeks. It is always happens about two hours after she goes down for the night. Never during a daytime nap. When this happens she has to have a majority of the lights on in the house and the only thing we have found to calm her completely is a bath. So I figured she is having nightmares. I don’t know what they could be about, but we are careful what we have playing on the television and what we discuss in front of her. Her mother and I don’t fight – we have a good relationship.
The thing that bothers me is that the last two times out of probably 4 or 5, I have noticed she pulls at her diaper. Then, when we take the diaper off to put her in the bath, she pulls at her genitals. The first time I noticed this activity, see had a diaper rash and I assumed we got too much medicine on her and it was bothering her, but tonight the rash is cleared and nothing was on her.

My wife is a stay-at-home mom so we know the baby is taken care of during the day and what she experiences during the day. She is not running fever, or giving any other indications of a medical problem.

My education tells me to watch who and what she is around on the days this happens. I have and got it narrowed to two people. But the last two times with her pulling at herself, could she be having nightmares concerning something with this? Or could it simply be a phase of her discovering herself? She does not touch herself in this way during the day, only during these episodes.

Why are supporters of illegals blaming this toddler for the actions of illegal Mexican?

On Wednesday, after six days of testimony, a Dakota County jury found De Jesus Melisio-Camacho, 30, guilty of murdering 3-year-old Evelyn Verdugo Paniagua in her family’s South Sioux City home.

The jury recommended the illegal alien be executed for his crime. A three judge panel will decide whether or not the state will accept the recommendation.

Through their consulate office in Omaha, the Mexican government filed a petition to delay the trial indefinitely. However, Judge William Binkard rejected the request and the trial began on Monday.

The toddler’s parents were present throughout the week’s proceedings, but left the courtroom in tears, several times, when the details of their daughter’s brutal murder were discussed.

On May 23, 2009, police received a call from Mercy Medical Center that a 3-year-old girl had just been pronounced dead. Her parents brought her to the emergency room after finding her lifeless body, obviously the tiny victim of a vicious, deadly attack.

According to South Sioux City police, Melisio-Camacho and the girl’s parents were friends in Mexico. He entered the girl’s home through a malfunctioning window on the family’s mobile home, while her parents slept. The little girl was sodomized, raped, and murdered in her room.

The toddler had a brother and an infant sister. The girl’s body was discovered by her mother, when she awoke to care for her newborn daughter.

Police arrested Melisio-Camacho very quickly after the crime was reported, because a South Sioux City police officer stopped him on the street earlier, to ask why the Mexican national had blood on his shirt.

Melisio-Camacho told the officer that he had been in a fight with some friends earlier in the night. While the officer did not yet know of the little girl’s murder, he did take Melisio-Camacho’s information, before releasing him.

Once the bulletin was put on the radio, it was only 80 minutes until police took Melisio-Camacho into custody.

Asked by reporters about the suspect’s motivation behind the ghastly crime, South Sioux City Police Chief Scot Ford said: “What kind of motive can you have for that kind of crime other than mental depravity, predatory activity?”

Chief Ford also acknowledged the fact that there had not been such a crime against a child in his town in 50 years.

*Reporter’s note: Unfortunately, the aforementioned shocking crime is becoming all too familiar in this country. Despite the lies spilling from the mouths of our spineless elected officials, until we deport all illegal aliens, and actually defend our borders…This nation will continue to serve as a hunting ground for foreign sexual predators, with our children as their quarry.

How many more children must be raped and murdered before we no longer tolerate the presence of criminal aliens in this country?

what do i say?

i’m a member of my local freecycle (a group that exchanges free unused/unwanted items). i gave away a vacuum on there yesterday. i told whoever wanted the item that i would like them to come get it that same day and to please not respond unless they can meet those terms. i had someone ask for it. i told them that they could have it but to please come get it. well, the lady responded THE NEXT DAY and asked me to bring it to her. she gave me a guilt trip and told me that she was on oxygen cuz of 2nd hand smoke. i’m not doubting her, and i’m sorry that this is her situation. i’m just a little ticked that she did this. i thought it was completely rude. she took her time to respond back to to me, then asks me to bring it to her not taking any of my daily activities into concideration. i’m a mother of 2 toddlers less than a year apart. all day i take care off errands, homework, cooking, cleaning, kids, etc. then i go to school full-time at night. what would you do?

Ok critical thinking developmental psychology ultimate frustration question?

How do you think changes in the frontal lobes during middle childhood affect their ability to manage health issues such as injuries, asthma, and over wieght? What do these changes suggest about the need for parental monitoring with regard to these concerns >>>>———–>?
Oh too hard to correctally answer ok heres an easier one >>>>———-> An experimental study could answer cause-and-affect questions about the affects of nonparental care, but why would such a study be unethical >>>>———–>?

do anyone know how to do a powerpoint prentation?

for class aed/202 early childhood and middle groups that addresses health issues

Should I have been born? (Long, but please don’t answer unless you read the whole story!)?

Okay, don’t take this as I am suicidal because its not like that. I am not about to go kill myself. I just believe from a logical standpoint that I probably should not have been born. My parents married at the ages of 35 and 47 respectively. This was a first marriage for both of them. My mother had been a spinster up until then and her one dream at that point was to give birth because all of her friends and family already had children I suppose and knowing her I guess she felt left out. Plus I think she thought that babies and children were “so cute” and she did not take into consideration that the baby would grow to an adolescent and then an adult later and would not care to bow to her every whim anymore. Basically she wanted a “pet kid” as I put it. So as the story goes they discussed and decided to start trying for children on the way home from the wedding. So, ten months later out I came. My parents were now 36 and 48 and first time parents of a newborn. We all know that it is not recommended for women over the age of 35 to have children and I am proof of that. I do not have Down’s Syndrome or any other genetic diseases but I do have a bizarre condition with my eyes that can be tricky to treat and inhibits me from performing certain activities well. I also seem to have some sort of deformity in my foot that causes me to walk with a duck like gait, I have a multitude of skin disorders and I am just overall physically weak. So I have medical issues as well as let’s face it my family is not the most attractive bunch and they passed on their crappy genes to me. And so I was bullied mercilessly in school because I was an ugly girl and little girls are supposed to be pretty and I had these physical abnormalities that caused me to not be proficient in sports at a school where that was important. I was intelligent but, hell, no one cares about that at that age. Not only was it hell for me at school but also at home. My mother had no clue how to be a parent. She had a very childlike mentality herself and would throw tantrums if she did not get her way. She would try to control me, manipulate me and hit me if I disagreed with her or even was just depressed and not listening to her cliches and she also was obsessively overprotective. She wanted a baby but was not prepared for a teenager or even an adult child. So I had a godawful childhood. There were no friends, boyfriends, parties, school dances, roller rinks or any of the other normal childhood stuff for me. I was the ugly, weird girl who walked funny and lived in a crappy trailer that no one wanted around except to throw rocks at. I did get a boyfriend as a senior in high school, someone who was hated almost as much as me, and we got married and are still married seven years later. He is probably one of the only reasons I am still alive. Yet the future bothers me. I am having more and more complications with my eyes and I fear I will one day be legally blind and be a burden on my husband or someone else. However, I have trouble getting close to people so if not my husband I will probably have no one. I also have a lot of mental health issues stemming from my bad childhood and I fall into deep depressions and I know it bothers him but the sadness just continues to overtake me. So to make a long story short. Two middle aged people, who just considered themselves “good friends” when they married mind you, made a spur of the moment decision to have a baby and gave birth to an ugly, awkward, physically and mentally unhealthy creature that they had no clue how to raise, whom everyone hated and who grew up to be a burden on the few that are around her and will probably never amount to much in this world. Congratulations on furthering the already surplus population of useless individuals mom and dad! Now don’t think I am going to go slit my wrists right now I am not saying that. I am just saying there are certain individuals who should never have come into existence and I believe I am one of them. I suppose all I can do is try to make the best of the mistake that is my life. But from a logical standpoint, given how my life has been and where I came from should I have been born? I know what the religious people are going to say already but i am looking for more neutral answers. Also, sorry I stuck this in social science because I did not know where else to put it. hehe.

Does my 2yr old daughter need to go to day care now?

I am from South Korea and I moved to US 1yrs ago. My daughter turned to 2years old in last month and now I am worried about her society activity. She has been playing usually alone at home but recently she wants to go out more often and get along with friends whom she met in public places. So I thought this should be the time to go to daycare for my daughter.
In my country, usually mothers are very eager in their children’s education so, it ‘s pretty common to send kids to development center when they are very young like 1yr old. My cousin’s baby went to a development center when she was 14months old.
My husband who is an American said in US, they don’t send kids to daycare or development center at that early age like Korea and he still doesn’t want my daughter to be sent to daycare. He thinks I can do a role as my daughter’s private daycare teacher at home. But I am not professional at toddler‘s development.
What is the best for my 2yr old angel?

Struggling to cope with two under 2?

I have a 22 month old and a 6 month old. My partner works away and is home for around 4 days a month. I don’t really have any support close by (My mother lives close by but she is very ill and cannot look after the children) and I am a stay at home Mother, so am with the children 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. I am really struggling to cope at the moment.Every day is a slog and I am not enjoying it at all. I try so hard to fill our days with activities/baby groups/play dates etc, but still find myself losing patience and getting cross with them, particularly my toddler. I feel like a horrible mother and go to bed every night vowing that tomorrow will be better. Is anyone else in the same boat? Or does anyone have any advice?

Spoiled, Lazy 13-Month-Old!!!!!!!!!!!! Need HELP?

Ok so I’m a nanny who has been taking care of this little boy for the past 10 months, and recently he has begun exhibiting very bratty, whiny behavior- he throws temper tantrums when he can’t have his way or is forced to do something he doesn’t want, and screams, cries, throws things and locks his body (when I’m trying to put him in his high chair or car seat, for example). He has also begun crying whenever I put him on the floor or couch and don’t pick him immediately up afterward, even though he is an amazing crawler and climber. Monday’s are always the worst day of my week because he’s been with his parents the entire weekend and I feel like they spoil him rotten.

He also doesn’t walk, talk, feed himself, or hold his bottle. I know all babies develop differently, but the reason why I think he’s acting out of sheer laziness/being spoiled is because he makes tons of stream of consciousness sounds, says short words when he WANTS to (hi, bye, wave, kiss, etc), understands direct commands, can climb up and down stairs or on and off the couch, can pick up a spoon, dip it in his food, and put it to his mouth (just not IN his mouth), can reach in and take food OUT of his mouth (just won’t pick it up and put it in), can push a walker, ‘coast’ along furniture… you get the point.

When his parents are home, they try to get him to do things but become easily frustrated and give in when he cries. Even though they might hold off from picking him up when he throws these tantrums, if he cries long enough they’ll still go up to him and comfort him by rubbing his back, giving him a toy, speaking to him soothingly- in other words, they still show him enough attention to feel like crying is the way to get what he wants. They also still hand feed him his first bottle of the day before I get to work, and they do it on their laps while watching tv… all big no nos when I’m there.( I ALWAYS feed him in the high chair in the kitchen.)

His mother also wants me to develop ‘curriculum’ for him to study every day to try to improve in these areas, but his attention span is so short he won’t sit still for anything, and, anyway, I don’t think the problem is that he’s slow or needs to be more focused, just that he wants to do what he wants to do all the time. I also give him tons of activities every day like reading, walking, practicing words, sounds, and commands, free play, play dates, etc, based on his developmental needs so I don’t see how a set ‘curriculum’ will help.

I feel like his mom is too focused on what other children are doing and wants him to be ‘ahead,’ rather than focusing on his behavior, and that she also can’t relate to him as a baby or even early toddler so she’s trying to speed the process along (his walking, talking, etc) so she can understand him better. It’s reaching a point where I want to say something to the parents about acceptable discipline techniques (he’s always been a sweet, good-natured baby, so we never had that talk) but I don’t know how to broach the subject without feeling like I’m overstepping my boundaries.

Please help! Do you think I’m wrong and this is just a normal stage? Any advice would be appreciated.
Mitchell: What do you mean, ‘get real?’ I’m being serious, do you think he’s spoiled or not? How should I address it with the parents? If you’re not going to give advice then I prefer you say nothing at all.
@Mama of Zee: He was initially with me a LOT, but recently has been spending much more time with his parents, and, like I said, the problems are recent and always the worst on Mondays. I don’t think that’s just a coincidence. I know that changes in behavior, clinginess, moodiness, and tantrums are usual for 13-month-olds, but I do NOT think it’s usual that it turns on towards the beginning of the week and off by midweek. The tears and tantrums have usually all but disappeared by Wednesday, but are back in full effect by Monday.

Perfect example: he loves having pillow fights and energetic playing on the couch, and climbing on and off by himself. LOVES it. But his mother doesn’t let him do it on the weekends because she’s terrified he’ll fall off and she freaks out and runs over to him when he tries to get off the couch alone. It’s the same thing with climbing up and down stairs; they don’t have baby gates and actually put two dinner chairs in front of the stairs to prevent him climbin
*climbing the stairs. So when I come back and try to get him to practice going up and down stairs, playing or climbing on and off the couch, or even just to take a few steps with me holding his hands to practice walking, he’ll go limp like a noodle and just cry hysterically. But by Wednesday he’s back to his exuberant, fun-loving, fearless self again.
@babydoll: Thanks so much for your advice!!!! That’s basically what I was trying to say, I feel like we’re sending him very different messages as caregivers and they’re undermining my authority… yes, they’re his parents, but I am with him Mon-Fri, 8am-6pm. They definitely just want to coddle him when they finally do see him (they call the morning feeding/television time his ‘am cuddle’) but it makes it hard for me because then I’m the ‘mean’ one that makes him sit in his highchair, walk/crawl as opposed to being carried, etc. I’ll definitely try your suggestion and let you know how it goes.