Your Questions About Toddler Developmental Stages

Mandy asks…
what is the best play mat?
we have decided what to get the family of little boys we are getting christmas gifts for.
the main thing we are looking for is a play mat that can be used throughout the toddler years for the newborn (first they lay on their back and pull the toys, then stomach, then sit, then use it for cruising). what is a good one that is decently priced?
also we are looking for riding toys for the bigger kids. what riding toys would be appropriate for the 11 month old and 2 1/2 year old? we want to get them one each that would fit their developmental stage.
we are going to toys r us.. i just want to know what would be some good models to look at for each child.
admin answers:
Go to the baby depot at Burlington Coat Factory.They have a wonderful variety of toys,books, and baby supplies. They have more than one brand of playmats, and their prices are decent, especially at christmas time. We did alot of christmas shopping there when our kids were babies. As for playmats I like the baby einstien designs. It seems to be more entertaining, also, i’ve noticed that the newer mats are smaller than the ones from 5 years ago, pick a larger size, since babies grow fast. They have riding toys and learning toys that can’t be found at walmart or target, which is why I like the Burlington Baby Depot when I need to get childrens presents. And toys r us is more expensive by the way.

Joseph asks…
My almost-12 month old won’t/can’t eat “table/toddler” food. His dr. isn’t concerned. So why am I?
My son isn’t excited about eating solids really at all. Occasionally when we are in a restaurant, he will want something to occupy himself with (foodwise), but it seems he would be content to simply breastfeed almost exclusively yet. We seat him at the family table and we all eat dinner together (me, husband, and him), and I usually eat breakfast with him as well– and by this, I mean whatever little he will eat. I don’t want to force food on him or start a power struggle, but he just doesn’t seem to want anything. What little food he does take is smooth puree– seems to hate the 3rd stage foods, so we don’t really go that route anymore. And I have tasted everything I feed him– it’s not as if I’m trying to make him eat something really gross. We offer little bits of our (appropriate) food, and he just thinks it is for mushing, messing, and throwing off the highchair to the dog. If something makes it into his mouth and it doesn’t totally dissolve (like steamed peas or rice), he gags frequently. He has 5 teeth.
I know I shouldn’t be comparing my kid to others, but my friends with same-age babies are eating whole grean beans, string cheese, and even PB&J sandwiches! My son just wants the boob. I’ve talked to the dr. about this, and she doesn’t seem to think it’s a big problem, as he will self-feed from time to time (puffs, graham goldfish, yogurt melts). He also uses a sippy cup for the occasional expressed breastmilk feeding when I’m not around, and a straw cup for water, and hitting all of his other developmental milestones (took first steps last week). He is approx. 50th percentile for both height and weight, so he’s obviously growing just fine. I am trying to live by the “food is for fun until age one” mantra, but his birthday is next week, and he still has no real desire to eat “real food.” So what can I do to just get over myself or perhaps make my son more interested in solids? He has his 12 month check-up at the end of this month and I plan to discuss this again with his pediatrician.
admin answers:
On one hand, this is fine, and very normal for a nursing 12mo. On the other…
“We offer little bits of our (appropriate) food, and he just thinks it is for mushing, messing…he will self-feed from time to time (puffs, graham goldfish, yogurt melts)”
Don’t give little bits of mushy stuff and don’t give garbage like the Gerber snacks. Give him…something appetizing, something with a bit of crunch. Cucumber, pita with hummus, even a tortilla chip loaded up with beans and guacamole. Honestly, and I mean no offence, but this sounds like a problem caused by the baby food aisle. Don’t shop there; it’s 99% crap and the remaining 1% is overpriced.
Don’t give tiny dice — give him something he has to gnaw/bite. A whole piece of toast, a stalk of steamed broccoli.
Don’t panic about gagging…

Sandra asks…
not going to sleep like he use to?
my son is 15 months and at 10 months i started to put him in bed awake and after four days he went to sleep within 10 mins of just fussing. and from then until know he has done just that, but just recently he has started to cry and scream again when i put him down.
what can the reason be , medical , developmental or just because hes getting to that stage of toddler hood?
admin answers:
I would say the stage of toddlerhood. My daughter is the same age and occasionally she will also cry when I walk out of her bedroom. I always put her to bed at 7:30pm, even if she is wired….she always ends up playing with her stuffed animals that are in her crib and then falls asleep. Just walk out of the room even if he is crying. If he continues to cry and he is hysterical go back in and reassure him that everything is alright. Continue to do this and eventually he will learn. Remember that sleep/bedtime is a learned behavior. A good book to pick up is “The Sleep Solution”. It worked wonders for me to establish the whole bedtime routine and even though its geared towards infants and it still useful for older babies.
I wish you the best of luck!!!
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