Your Questions About Toddler Developmental Stages

Mandy asks…

what is the best play mat?

we have decided what to get the family of little boys we are getting christmas gifts for.

the main thing we are looking for is a play mat that can be used throughout the toddler years for the newborn (first they lay on their back and pull the toys, then stomach, then sit, then use it for cruising). what is a good one that is decently priced?

also we are looking for riding toys for the bigger kids. what riding toys would be appropriate for the 11 month old and 2 1/2 year old? we want to get them one each that would fit their developmental stage.
we are going to toys r us.. i just want to know what would be some good models to look at for each child.

admin answers:

Go to the baby depot at Burlington Coat Factory.They have a wonderful variety of toys,books, and baby supplies. They have more than one brand of playmats, and their prices are decent, especially at christmas time. We did alot of christmas shopping there when our kids were babies. As for playmats I like the baby einstien designs. It seems to be more entertaining, also, i’ve noticed that the newer mats are smaller than the ones from 5 years ago, pick a larger size, since babies grow fast. They have riding toys and learning toys that can’t be found at walmart or target, which is why I like the Burlington Baby Depot when I need to get childrens presents. And toys r us is more expensive by the way.

Joseph asks…

My almost-12 month old won’t/can’t eat “table/toddler” food. His dr. isn’t concerned. So why am I?

My son isn’t excited about eating solids really at all. Occasionally when we are in a restaurant, he will want something to occupy himself with (foodwise), but it seems he would be content to simply breastfeed almost exclusively yet. We seat him at the family table and we all eat dinner together (me, husband, and him), and I usually eat breakfast with him as well– and by this, I mean whatever little he will eat. I don’t want to force food on him or start a power struggle, but he just doesn’t seem to want anything. What little food he does take is smooth puree– seems to hate the 3rd stage foods, so we don’t really go that route anymore. And I have tasted everything I feed him– it’s not as if I’m trying to make him eat something really gross. We offer little bits of our (appropriate) food, and he just thinks it is for mushing, messing, and throwing off the highchair to the dog. If something makes it into his mouth and it doesn’t totally dissolve (like steamed peas or rice), he gags frequently. He has 5 teeth.

I know I shouldn’t be comparing my kid to others, but my friends with same-age babies are eating whole grean beans, string cheese, and even PB&J sandwiches! My son just wants the boob. I’ve talked to the dr. about this, and she doesn’t seem to think it’s a big problem, as he will self-feed from time to time (puffs, graham goldfish, yogurt melts). He also uses a sippy cup for the occasional expressed breastmilk feeding when I’m not around, and a straw cup for water, and hitting all of his other developmental milestones (took first steps last week). He is approx. 50th percentile for both height and weight, so he’s obviously growing just fine. I am trying to live by the “food is for fun until age one” mantra, but his birthday is next week, and he still has no real desire to eat “real food.” So what can I do to just get over myself or perhaps make my son more interested in solids? He has his 12 month check-up at the end of this month and I plan to discuss this again with his pediatrician.

admin answers:

On one hand, this is fine, and very normal for a nursing 12mo. On the other…

“We offer little bits of our (appropriate) food, and he just thinks it is for mushing, messing…he will self-feed from time to time (puffs, graham goldfish, yogurt melts)”

Don’t give little bits of mushy stuff and don’t give garbage like the Gerber snacks. Give him…something appetizing, something with a bit of crunch. Cucumber, pita with hummus, even a tortilla chip loaded up with beans and guacamole. Honestly, and I mean no offence, but this sounds like a problem caused by the baby food aisle. Don’t shop there; it’s 99% crap and the remaining 1% is overpriced.

Don’t give tiny dice — give him something he has to gnaw/bite. A whole piece of toast, a stalk of steamed broccoli.

Don’t panic about gagging…

Sandra asks…

not going to sleep like he use to?

my son is 15 months and at 10 months i started to put him in bed awake and after four days he went to sleep within 10 mins of just fussing. and from then until know he has done just that, but just recently he has started to cry and scream again when i put him down.

what can the reason be , medical , developmental or just because hes getting to that stage of toddler hood?

admin answers:

I would say the stage of toddlerhood. My daughter is the same age and occasionally she will also cry when I walk out of her bedroom. I always put her to bed at 7:30pm, even if she is wired….she always ends up playing with her stuffed animals that are in her crib and then falls asleep. Just walk out of the room even if he is crying. If he continues to cry and he is hysterical go back in and reassure him that everything is alright. Continue to do this and eventually he will learn. Remember that sleep/bedtime is a learned behavior. A good book to pick up is “The Sleep Solution”. It worked wonders for me to establish the whole bedtime routine and even though its geared towards infants and it still useful for older babies.
I wish you the best of luck!!!

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    James asks…

    Is it just my imagination, or were toddlers from previous generations better behaved in public places…?

    …than today’s?

    I see meltdowns, temper tantrums, and all sorts of bad behaviour that I think parents seemed to have a better handle on 20 years ago.
    Mr. Warrior: Not sure what brought on that outburst, this is the first time I’ve ever commented on the subject and anyway, why are you trying to get me to deny what I’m seeing with my own eyes?

    admin answers:

    Kevin u only see what your eyes want you to see.
    There is nothing wrong with my toddler. He is well behaved and never has had a tantrum. He is four years old.
    What u think and what is actually fact are two different things.
    With talk like that your way of thinking is just you sliding your self into the typical stereotype of an old interfering know it all elderly person who needs to feel validated even though they are dead wrong.
    I will neither entertain your beliefs or agree with you because i dont have time for people who think and base their opnions on the bad things they see.
    All children are different and u know what , maybe i was blessed for having a well behaved child. But i refuse to believe that you have never seen a good case of a well behaved toddler. Your eyes are not opened wide enough. You just want to see the bad nature in a toddler. Thats why u point it out so often.
    I wonder if u have ever posted a question in here about how u saw a well behaved toddler and how polite that child was when u saw them. I know u have not simply because its in your nature to point out negative things u see in your life and have another reason to complain about younger generations.
    Get your own life and stop being a complaining old man. Its not very appealing. Even if u want to feel validated in your way of thinking you definitly go the wrong way about it.

    Donna asks…

    i feel bisexual because my man acts like a bytch?

    so yeah when he gets mad he starts yelling in public having a temper tantrum (hes 26). today at ikea he started yelling infront of toddlers “i want the world to know your a by tch everybody this girls a bytch” and he kept shouting:”whore” and our 3 year old was with us can i safely classify him as psycho the fight started over a disagreement about dry erase markers.

    then he starts calling me bipolar on the way home he acted like nothing happened. what should i do should i have my brother kick his az z?
    lady of forest i know i have issues thanks for not answering the question

    admin answers:

    Lol wat a man u hav there. But trust me dear, hes probly feeling a lil shtty inside. Get ur brother only if u want a divorce, bcos violence solves nothing cept retaliation. One way or the other, he will hurt u. I suggest u guys sit down and ask him for an adult talk. Get a recorder and let him hear himself. Its important that u dont laf or make him feel humiliated. Humiliation is such a poison which could turn a man into an idiot.
    Talk some sense into ur relationship. Its often a problem that both parties hav their own contribution. So hear him out and let him hear himself.

    Ken asks…

    2 year old wont sleep alone, going crazy, please help!!!!!!!?

    My daughter was the perfect sleeper since she was born…until a week ago. All of a sudden she refuses to sleep alone. I got her a toddler bed, so she now has her crib and her bed, and that didn’t help. She just doesn’t want to sleep alone. Ive been sleeping on the floor next to her crib and holding her hand till she falls asleep and than I leave but in a couple hours she wakes up freaking out.
    She’s also been acting out a lot lately with temper tantrums, she has at least 3 a day.

    I’ve really had enough with this and I just don’t know what to do anymore…I really need help =(

    Please, any and all suggestions are welcome, I just want her back to normal…I dont even want to take her out in public anymore cuz she’s constantly having these tantrums and nothing works to make her stop unless she gets her way…plz help!!!!!!
    She also wont take her afternoon nap anymore…

    admin answers:

    Sounds like the tantrums might be due to being over-tired from this new sleep issue.

    We had a similar situation when my daughter was young. When my daughter was about 2 – 2 1/2, I would put her down and reassure her I would be back to check on her in 1 minute. Then I can back in 1 minute. I did this repeatedly until she was sure I would be back. Then I moved it to 2 minutes and kept going on with this until it was a substantial amount of time. Then I started saying, “Go to sleep, I will come and check on you later.” Then I made sure I would check on her a couple of times before she fell asleep. Eventually, she started sleeping on her own. This took a few days. I think I camped out in her room until we got it, but it did work. Good luck! I hope you find a solution that works for you and your daughter.

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      Your Questions About Toddler Developmental Stages

      Charles asks…

      great to answer?

      Information on how children are doing at different periods of their lives are presented here and monitored on Kids Stats.

      under 1 year (Infants)
      1-4 years (Toddlers)
      5-9 years (Early Childhood)
      10-14 years (Middle Childhood)
      15-17 years (Adolescence)

      The age periods were chosen to reflect a developmental stage. In presenting information within these groups we recognise that while all children go through the same stages, they do so at their own speed. if yo udont belive me go to the following web http://www.kids.nsw.gov.au/kids/kidsstat… .
      do you agree. if so write why.

      admin answers:

      Each child is different even within the same family. They all develop at their own rate.

      Mark asks…

      22 month old sleep habits changing?

      My son is 22 months old and has always been a good sleeper. Up until recently we would put him down between 6:30-7PM and he would wake up between 6-7AM, along with taking one 2 hour nap in the afternoon. Well, for the past week his sleep habits have been changing. He has been going to bed later and later every night (last night it was 9) and waking up as early as 4AM wide awake! His naps are more like an hour now which isn’t as big of a deal to me as long as he takes a nap, but the other day he only slept for a half hour.

      All of this is just so unlike him I am wondering if he is going through some sort of developmental stage. I remember his sleep patterns changing slightly when he would go through a big change like crawling and walking. His eating habits have changed in the past week or so too. He used to eat everything and now he’s really picky and isn’t eating nearly as much throughout the day. We switched him over to a toddler bed a few weeks ago and from the first time we put him in there he’s been fine with it. Last night when we put him down at 8 and he screamed and cried for me for a half hour. I finally went in there and laid with him until he fell asleep which is a habit I do not want to get into!!

      Has anyone else went through something similar with their toddler? Any advice? THANK YOU!!

      admin answers:

      My son is 2 & 1/2 years old and this changing of sleep happened when there was a major change in our family, and that was when my husband left us and thats what did it, a child cant understand whats going on, so ask yourself has anything changed? Maybe your working longer hours? Or your husband? Is he at daycare longer? Did someone pass away? Children are used to be on strict daily routine schedules, and once they change in someway the child changes his behavior in our way or another. My son still won’t sleep through the night, we lay him in his toddler bed and he wakes up everynight at 2am and gets in bed with me and my husband, so you figuer out what changed. Gd luck

      Laura asks…

      look what i found?

      look what i found

      Information on how children are doing at different periods of their lives are presented here and monitored on Kids Stats.

      under 1 year (Infants)
      1-4 years (Toddlers)
      5-9 years (Early Childhood)
      10-14 years (Middle Childhood)
      15-17 years (Adolescence)
      The age periods were chosen to reflect a developmental stage. In presenting information within these groups we recognise that while all children go through the same stages, they do so at their own speed. if yo udont belive me go to the following webhttp://www.kids.nsw.gov.au/kids/kidsstats/agegroups/middlechildhood.cfm . do you agree.

      admin answers:

      I do agree that in what you said – every child develops at different stages and the age groups in this site are quite good. It is a pity that the Australian government don’t monitor those bullet point notes down the bottom of the pages more careful with the upsetting amounts of deaths of toddlers in recent months due to abuse and neglect

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        My son (18 months) poops almost exclusively in his sleep. Potty training started out fine with him signing the word ‘toilet’ and me rushing him to the potty and doing the song and dance. But now he goes in bed while taking his noontime nap or sleeping through the night. What do I do?


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          When she does it, it’s usually during the first stage of her sleep. We are learning to control it but what we can’t seem to control is the horrible odor that she has during the day/night on her underwear. It’s often very noticeable. What can I do?!


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            toddler tantrums during nap time.?

            so almost every day he throws a tantrums during nap time. I give him the option of where to sleep, in my bed, his room, but not downstairs, but my point is, he ends up finding something that he shouldn’t be doing and then it just turns into this battle of screaming at me, and yelling no at me, and getting upset, so I put him in his room and shut the door and give him a min or two to cool down, and do it all over again about 15 times. that is the only place I have for his time out where he can;t escape and destroy things.
            Anyways, I am wondering if maybe I am putting him down to early? He use to go to nap time around 12:30-1:30ish before with barely any problems, but today he went up at 12:30, which is probably to early which might of set him up for a tantrum?
            Or should I skip the naps? Or give him later naps, like at 2?
            He does need naps most of the time, so I feel like he s till needs them, but maybe I should skip a day without a nap and see? what do you think? He’s 25 months.


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              Hi. I’m normal for a 12 year old boy except 2 things. One is I bedwet. And two is my mom and I are going to France for the summer. So since I’ll sleep on the flight I’ll wear a diaper up in the air. But my question is will the security know i have diapers in my carry on bag?


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                Ken asks…

                Erikson’s developmental stages QUESTIONS for Interview?

                I have to interview 4 people who are: Birth/toddler (0-4 years), School ages (4-12years), Adolescence (12-18years), and Adulthood (22-60years old). I have to ask the same questions to each group, so they have to be as simple as possible …and I’m stumped….I only have “List 3 things that are most important to you.” Any ideas? It’s difficult because I have to ask small children… =S

                admin answers:

                What a cool assignment!

                How about:

                1) Describe (Tell me about) your parents.

                2) What is your favorite thing to do?

                3) Tell me about yourself. (might be a little advanced for 0-4, but would be telling about the sense of self as it develops over the life span).

                4) What do you think will happen in the future?

                Thats all I got, hope that helps!

                Maria asks…

                what are the five developmental stages?

                and give five examples that show these types of development in infants, toddlers and preschoolers

                admin answers:

                You need to be more specific. Are you thinking of a specific framework or theory?

                Betty asks…

                What could be causing my toddler not to sleep anymore at night? ?

                My 2 year old son has begun waking up a few times a night. I’m talking 1a.m. until 2a.m. then 3 to 4 then up for the day at 8. This is highly unusual. He usually goes to bed at 7 and sleeps through 9 in the morning. I’ve tried changing his nap routine. I’ve had him on a schedule with dinner, bath, bed, book every night. Nothing in his schedule changed before he started waking up. He was born prematurely and is behind on many developmental stages. I wasn’t sure if that would play a role in his sleeping habits. I’m just losing too much sleep with having to be at work at 6:30 every morning! Any advice would be greatly appreciated!!! Oh, he also hasn’t gone through any big changes lately other than the holidays, so that’s why I’m not understanding where this is coming from. Please Help!!!! Thanks in advance!!

                admin answers:

                He may not simply need that much sleep any longer. My boys who just turned two have a two hour nap in the daytime and sleep from 8 pm to between 7-8 am. They used to sleep to 8 and are now just starting to wake earlier, it’s just a normal change in behavior. My three year old went through the same change when she was about 2 1/2 and began waking up every morning at 7 and this year stopped taking the full two hour nap I give them. Maybe consider keeping him up an extra hour at night and making sure (especially since it’s winter and he’s not getting outside as much) to have a good hour or two in the evening where there’s a lot of physical playtime (dancing, jumping, running, etc) to help tire him out.

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                  How do you stop a 14yr old bedwetting the bed?

                  My sister is 14 yrs old. She keeps peeing in the bed. How do I stop that her doing that. She doesn’t know I’m writing this. so. She never want me to tell this to nobody. She never want to sleep over nobody’s house except for the friend she trusts. So I need help trying to tell her try to sleep over someone’s house. Even her own boyfriend doesn’t know this. Will she be able o stop peeing when she grows up. She maybe wants to have sex. But she’s maybe will be afraid to sleep with somebody.


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                    The guy guests always sleep on the couch, and because of that, my couch was messed up 5 times. Oh the horrible smell! I really don’t want to take chances again. The guests are usually 13-16 years old and weigh 120-180 lbs. It’s my favorite couch.


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